You got up the nerve to ask out the young lady you’ve always dreamt of and somehow she actually said yes, now what? You got a few days before the date and your imagination starts to race. “AM i meant to bring flowers?”, “Candy?”, “Do need to pay?”, will be questions which are racing around your head.
Observe these Three simple guidelines and your credibility is going to instanly go up:
- Pay – Its your first date, Pay! Yea, yea, the ladies can pay their own way blah blah blah…. Just because they can dont indicate that want/have to. On the first date all your date should have to pay attention to is you. The second/third date you’ll be able to take a look at…
- Develop a Schedule – Don’t show up for your first date without a plan. You could be the kind of guy whom flies by the seat of your pants, but on the first night out you have to have a game plan planned out. If you are going to a restaurant, have the restaurant picked out and have reservations made. Even if the venue isnt busy you should have made a reservation, this shows that you are punctual as well as foresighted. She may not overtly tell you this but you will be scoring major points by simply having a plan.
- Don’t Assume a Homerun – When you go on your first date with the objectives of scoring a homerun you’ll alienate your date and destroy your odds. Don’t try to be funny and bring up inappropriate conversation like sex toys. In fact, on the first date the only ‘move’ should be a good night hug, and even then it should be a quick soft kiss and then leave. Don’t be fooled into thinking that there is a green light, once you convey you had a terrific time and get a little kiss call it a night.
You’ve scored a date of your life, now it’s time for you to step up to bat and demonstrate to her that she made a great choice. Its like the old laundry soap commercial states, you only get one chance to make a first impression. It’s not as if you will get to look at her sexy lingerie or adult toys on the very first night but the more she opens up the more likely that could happen in the potential future. Follow these guidelines and you will be well on you way to having a very fulfilling night.
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