July 2009

Obviously, if you are reading this, you are one of the smart guys. Why are you a smart guy? Well, because a smart guy knows that when he is not doing so great at something (i.e. dating!) he needs to go find some help. So you went out looking for some dating tips for guys, and you have found a great article, so keep reading!

I know so many men that are looking for sincere, easy to follow dating tips for men – yet when they get the dating advice they have been looking for, they misinterpret what is being said and screw it up – ending up with some misguided notion about how to treat women and making the guys who GIVE the dating advice look like nothing more than a bunch of wanna-be pick up artists.

The well meaning men want to be an alpha man – they want to be leaders of the pack – confident, successful and attractive to women . Yet they take this characteristic and shape it into something wrong – something that was totally opposite, egotistical, contemptuous and ugly.

You have probably heard about becoming an alpha male – most guys have. But most men get it all wrong, because they take the prevalent characteristics that women have, such as consideration, benevolence and bigheartedness, and think that in order to be a masculine man or an alpha man, that a man has to be the OPPOSITE of this.

That is a HUGE mistake.

If you want to be a man, a real man who is a leader and a go getter, someone with confidence and appeal to women , you have to learn to master the virtues of what a real alpha man is. Real alpha men are not …

• liars
• mean spirited
• malicious
• false
• cruel

Real alpha men ARE, on the other hand…

direct
secure
considerate
empathetic
unselfish
leaders

Men , being falsely cast alpha males, are often thought to be without the qualities and traits commonly thought of as womanly or feminine. However, virtues and characteristics of the alpha male are the characteristics and values that one would want to see in a good, effective, committed leader – no matter if that leader is a man or a woman.

For instance, an alpha man, as the leader of his “pack”, will look out for the good of his party. If we consider the group to be his family, he is a attentive father who takes care of and provides for his children. He teaches them dominant and transparent virtues such as honesty, kindness, hard work and compassion. He teaches them to treat people with dignity and respect, but he also teaches them to treat themselves with dignity and respect, caring for oneself by taking care of the body, mind and spirit.

Alpha males do not allow others to push them around and cheat, lie or steal. They stand up for those who are in need, fight for virtue and honesty, defend the weak, help the poor and sick and provide for those less able and less fortunate than themselves.

Put in some terms, some folks might think to call these womanly or motherly virtues – however, they can just as easily be applied to the man who has a true and strong idea of his own characteristics. Vices and virtues are equally applied to both sexes, and simply because women carry the stereotype for having one set of virtues does not mean that the men , the REAL men, have to be the opposite.

There is nothing masculine about kicking those who are down, war, rape, pillage and thievery. There is no honor in making fun of people, capitalizing on the downfalls and problems of others. Alpha males do not do this – they are upright and strong, not needing to look for the misfortune of others in order to get ahead of the game.

If you want to learn a little more about being a real alpha man that attracts women , check out this free dating tips for men video by Scot McKay and learn a very simple step that YOU can take today to become the alpha man that women are attracted to without fail.

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Net dating is a growing trend. It used to be that only a few people used it, but today, 1000000 and millions of people use live dating free online dating. In fact, many of the large sites, such as eHarmony, Match, etc, have more than 20,000 people joint each day! It’s becoming very popular. Nonetheless, with more people linking up, more web sites are springing up. This is not necessarily a good thing, as since essentially anyone can start a website, there are a lot of low select live dating land sites out there. Preferring the right one for you can be difficult, but I hope this article will help you.

Bigger is not needfully better.

Remember, quality online dating stamp sites are not necessarily super. Yes, sites like Match, eHarmony, True, etc, have a lot of users and consequently a lot of mass to meet, but that doesn’t mean that they are needfully serious. It varies site-to-site, but in my experience I have seen that mid-sized sites generally are better.

Smaller is not needfully better, either!

This goes both ways. You don’t need to join a dating site that has almost 100 individuals, do you? What leaved be the spot of that?

Local dating sites are seldom good.

Despite what many mass think, important nation-wide dating services are nearly constantly hotter than small local sites. Plus, the big sites have selections to localize anyway, so why trouble with the small ones?

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