Get your kit off, get in bed, get on with it. For couples in long term relationships, this can become a little tedious and predictable. As fun as it may be, it can sometimes spawn boredom in the bedroom. You don’t deserve boredom, you deserve better sex! So why not try these 4 different ways of adding some spice into your bedroom routine.. Or out of the bedroom, as it were!
Truck sex!
If you own a pickup or any large vehicle (more space makes it easier!) you can indulge in what I like to call ‘Truck Sex’! It is quite simply sex in a truck (or said large vehicle). The appeal comes from the fact that you’re out of the house, things tend to be a little rushed and awkward! It all lends to the excitement!
If you are out on a drive and feel the urge, find a rest area along the highway somewhere, and find a rather secluded spot to park. Now, many rest areas are well lit these days so it is advisable to find a corner as dark as you can and with no one parked close by. But of course, the fun and risk comes from the fact that there will be people parked around and there is the chance that the rocking and noise will attract attention!
While on the road there is the option of oral sex, if the guy is driving! This Can Be Dangerous however, so DO NOT do it, unless your man is a great and able driver! The distraction can cause accidents and if you are caught by police, you’ll be lucky to get away with just a ticket!
But it is the risk and adrenaline rush that makes this so sexy and exciting. As is sex in public in general…
Public sex
Which obviously means having sex in public places. You do not need to be obvious about it, else you may be done for indecency! But to have sex in such a place that people may surround you and yet have no idea you are there is one of the most exciting things to do as a couple. Again, be very careful for the authorities, since it is technically illegal! But the pleasure is worth a certain amount of danger, don’t you think?!
Such places can include a back alley perhaps hidden from the hustle and bustle of life outside, a public bathroom in a restaurant or club, the changing rooms in Wal-Mart, a parking lot or a large park. Anywhere your imagination can take you!
Outdoor sex doesn’t mean you have to have actual intercourse! While sitting in a crowded cinema or restaurant, in a dimly lit booth, side by side, slide you hand up and down you partners leg and you can arouse them with all those people sat around you. If you’re game you can take it even further If you are both sitting close enough to the table, you can even unzip that fly and grab a hold or slide your fingers down. Pleasuring your partner while all the other diners sit unknowingly can be so exciting. If you have a long table cloth which reaches down to the floor, and you are feeling risqu? enough, you can slip under the table when no one is looking and perhaps orally pleasure your partner, seeing if he can keep a straight enough face as you do!
Role play
Even just dressing up as the clich?d French Maid or Naughty Nurse can be an entertaining change from your usual sexual routines, but it does not have to end there. Role play can take the form of changing personality for the session in bed – for example, a usually submissive woman takes the reins and dominates her man, or vice versa. Or you assume a new name, pretending you have no idea who (your name) is..!
This can awaken some deep seated fantasies for your man and allow him to somewhat live his dreams of having sex with ‘Sarah the bar maid’ or ‘Jessica, the cashier girl at Wal-Mart’ – without ever cheating! If you are an open minded spouse and will allow you mate to fantasize about somebody else, you can have a really exciting time. Maybe he would do different things with her that he wouldn’t normally do with you. In finding these things out, if you both enjoy them, you can introduce them into your regular sex lives.
A little BDSM with a light touch (or harder if you wish!) can add a naughty twist to your sex lives as well. Without having to bring out the whips and nipple clamps, you can play at handcuffs and blindfolds! This gives each of you a turn at being in charge.
Sex toys
The introduction of sex toys into your sex life can occasionally be a little hesitant at first, for fear of your partner thinking they are not satisfying you enough. But it can also be a new realm for you to both explore yourselves. Vibrating toys can be used together as well as alone. Your man can hold and play with a dildo on you and you can do the same with the likes of a cyber skin vagina. Sex toys are also very useful if one or both partners travel for work
However, they also make toys that both of you can enjoy together as a couple. Vibrating cock rings and penis extensions can be fun for all. They will vibrate you both as you make love, or the extensions will make him feel larger inside you, while providing him with the same sexual pleasure.
Along with the toys, almost all sex shops sell lubricants and edible gels for purposes such as oral sex or just simply licking each other all over!
So as you can see, there are many way to spice things up and take your love life to a new level if you include some imagination with a dash of daring. The thrill seekers out there will be.. Well, thrilled!
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